Open Question: Woman’s psychology………………………………………….?
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”I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago.
I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her.
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This is the piece.
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My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot.
In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said ‘no’ and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months.
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Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture).
Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms’ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier.
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Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship.
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After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said ‘no’ (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him.
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Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time.
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After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year’s eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he ‘liked’ and commented that may God bless us both– but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that…
so, ur answers will be
she loves her husband and wants to keep his friend as only a friend–>> BUT why she doesnt talk to him now? if u didnt want to hav the friendship, then end it. simple. she doesnt do that. every night she logs in to FB and there she has him in her friend list and if she views his activities there, its a bad sign isnt it. Block him there– she doesnt do it (i verifiied it. both are still frens). talk to him and remove his confusion and say to me by urself that there is a fren u have by his name and remove my confusion,–she doesnt do it.
so, what more ideas u get out of it???
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